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‘My biggest problem is that most girls my age (~25) are very childish’, he points out.
He might be right, but the word ‘childish’ makes me think that his culture might have a different concept of maturity.
His culture values the extended family and usually a man is considered the main provider for the family.
They are shy and dating in a Western sense is somewhat new to Japan.
I’m not saying he should adapt himself completely; it’s ultimately his choice.
I am less judgemental now because I realise that I might simply have had a differently way of measuring maturity. Isabel, a German girl who has been living in Japan for about half a year, is a good example.
I have noticed that cute girls tend to be quite bad at approaching guys. She is studying computer science and surrounded by a lot of guys.
My personal experience also tells me that dating in Japan is completely feasible and a lot of my friends seem to be doing OK with dating here.
Then the real question is this: what is the difference between successful and unsuccessful people?
Fortunately, thanks to zoomingjapan, I have a good sample of comments on this.