Dating a prideful man
He’s not going to say “that text was so witty, I see the light!” or “she’s calling me every day after I broke up with her, what was I thinking?And YOU want to be the girl who loves herself enough to not want to talk to the person who broke your heart. I know you are going to want to stay in bed, watch Someone Like You and eat oreos (well, that is my breakup ritual).And you are entitled to do that for a bit, but then you are just going to have to force yourself to at least do the things you love.I PROMISE that you are not going to see him posting Adele lyrics or tell the world he misses you. I know you are going to want him to see pics of you looking super hot and going out, but then you will be pretending to live life for his benefit as opposed to actually trying to live your life.Also, make sure to lean on your family and friends.
Apparently, 30 days is also how long it will take for him to start missing you.Additionally, if your relationship ended horribly, he will need a little time to start focusing on the good things and forget the bad things.Whether you are implementing NC because you want him back or because you truly want to get over him, you need a solid month before either of those things are possible (unless he quickly realizes on his own that he made the biggest mistake of his life).Having failed at every relationship I've ever been in, I certainly don’t know the key to having a successful one.I do however, know a thing or two about having a broken heart.
It’s like having a sip of alcohol after weeks of being sober.